Q: Dear Todd, I don’t know how it is possible to not judge something as “negative” when I have found a wish in my heart and then things happen that seem to be the opposite to what my heart sees.

TODD ANSWERS: I know exactly what you mean but it really is true that nothing is positive or negative. They really are two sides of the same coin. There is needless suffering in the world which we can try to alleviate as our hearts guide us to do so